In the wonderful world of BDSM, toys are far from a necessity. For most, the Dom/sub dynamic can be enough to spice up their sex life and create a new exciting adventure. But, truth be told, the ecstatic peaks of BDSM sex can only be reached when some luxury BDSM gear is incorporated during plays.

For a beginner, BDSM gear choices can seem overwhelming. Plus, most first-time buyers will either overbuy heaps of toys they don’t need, or buy just a couple, only to crave more later. Just like the art of BDSM, you’ll have to find the right balance when it comes to gear.

So, today, we’ll take a look at all the essential BDSM bondage gear you’ll need, as well as some good-to-haves to kickstart your new collection.

The Absolute Essentials: Basic BDSM Gear You’ll Need

We were recently discussing how essential BDSM toys truly are. Do you really need all the different pairs of fluffy handcuffs and the hard-hitting whips? 

You see, we actually forgot the essential “essentials”, if that makes sense. These are the accessories that most folks have used before without even knowing that they’d fall into the BDSM gear category. Let’s take a look at them, shall we?

Blindfolds

Blindfolds are pretty much the only accessory you’ll need when you have your first bondage plays. Like all the other essentials, there are some alternatives that you might have lying around, like a sleeping mask or a scarf. No matter which one you opt for, blindfolds heighten your senses and take your D/s relationship to the next level.

Bondage Tape

Most BDSM masters wouldn’t really classify bondage tape as beginner gear. But, we think that it’s the safest form of restraint play. Plus, they’re pretty versatile; there’s no reason to get handcuffs AND shackles when you can just buy some good old bondage tape.

Handcuffs

When you start feeling comfortable in your BDSM journey, it’s time to bring the handcuffs out. Whether you want to experiment with some roleplay or exercise your dominance on your sub, cuffs are where it’s at! Make sure to start out with some luxury padded leather ones for maximum comfort and pleasure.

Paddles

Okay, so paddles can be easily replaced with some household items… or your hands. But a premium leather paddle can really enhance your BDSM experience, as it’s built purely for spanking. Unlike that wooden spoon you found in your kitchen drawer. The impact itself is much more controlled by the Dominant person, and it can throw a punch later down the line.

Paddles And Whips To Smack Your Hips: Luxury Impact Play BDSM Gear

Some simple impact play is usually the first thing the BDSM newcomers try out. Just remember that you must target safe areas, like the butt or the thighs, whenever you use any kind of BDSM gear.

Whips

Once you get used to maneuvering a paddle around, grab a high-quality whip. Whips are much more impactful, as they have a smaller surface area and are generally easier to maneuver. So, remember not to go all out from the get-go; instead, increase the intensity slowly after each BDSM sex play.

Floggers

You should consider buying a premium leather flogger once you’ve had a few different plays. While they are beginner-friendly, floggers are somewhat hard to use. In turn, take your time to learn how they work by practicing on a pillow (or your own body). Master the technique first before adding intensity to ensure your sub’s safety.

Ticklers

If you really want a harmless, beginner-friendly piece of luxury BDSM gear, go for a high-quality tickler. These don’t inflict pain but are still part of impact play. You can use these to get some practice on how to glide your gear all over the sub’s body. Plus, many find tickling extremely arousing, especially when it’s implemented as a punishment.

Hold It Right There: Luxury BDSM Bondage Gear

BDSM bondage gear is definitely a great place to get your collection running. We’ve already mentioned blindfolds and handcuffs, but let’s look at some more advanced gear, albeit beginner-friendly.

Shackles

Shackles, or ankle cuffs, are just a notch higher than handcuffs. They pretty much render the sub helpless and are definitely one of the must-haves when you get into BDSM. But once you start using these alongside regular handcuffs, you might want to consider hogties.

Hogties

Premium leather hogties are, arguably, the best beginner-friendly BDSM bondage gear you can get. They combine shackles and handcuffs into one accessory that allows the Dom to do anything he likes to the sub.

Mouth Gag and Collars

Mouth gags and collars are a must-have if you want to dive into bondage. While you’ll need to experiment with some other plays first, these are the epitome of a D/s relationship. Just remember to discuss your safe words beforehand since ball gags are pretty good at suppressing vocal legibility.

Bondage Rope

The internet has really helped BDSM flourish. So, it’s no wonder that even beginners want to start out with the art of Rigger plays. You, my friends, will need to get a premium bondage rope set and get to practicing.

Luxury BDSM Gear With a Purpose

BDSM accessories are important in this pleasure-seeking journey. But remember that you don’t need to get all of them at once. In fact, we think that by sporadically upgrading your gear, you’ll be able to make the experience even more pleasurable.

If you’re looking for premium leather BDSM accessories, you’re in the right place. At Oddo Leather, we strive to not only break the stereotypes around BDSM but also provide newcomers with the best-quality gear they can get. Feel free to take a look at some of our wonderful, premium leather collections.