When it comes to BDSM kinks, your options are endless. Some, like simple impact play, are well–known to the public. Most sexually active folk have indulged in some spanking. Then we have bondage, which is a bit more extreme, but still, we’d consider it vanilla. That said, rigger BDSM, a subcategory of bondage, is certainly not for beginners.

The Rigger kink is considered edge play, which practically means that it’s borderline dangerous, regardless of how experienced you are. And this also indicates that it’s not the best starting point for your BDSM journey. 

Still, we’re all about introducing new kinks to beginners and experienced folks alike. So, today, we’ll look at what a Rigger is in BDSM, as well as all the gear you will need, the techniques you can use, and the precautions you must take.

What Is a Rigger in BDSM

Let’s start with the basics. The Rigger kink itself is rope bondage. However, the term “Rigger” describes the person in charge of the rope and how it’s used. As we’ll see below, while the person is the Dominant one in the D/s dynamic, they don’t necessarily have to tie the submissive. The latter is also known as the rope bunny.

What Is a Rope Bunny

The rope bunny is the submissive person during Rigger play. Due to the nature of this Rigger sex play, the rope bunny will either get tied up or they’ll tie up the Dom according to their commands. This also means that, like most BDSM scenes, the rope bunny role isn’t restricted to any gender or sexual orientation.

Now that you have the basics at hand, you’ll need to educate yourself on how to create a scene and ensure the safety of everyone in it. And you’ll also have to take note of the gear needed, which is our specialty!

Stay in the Loop With Rope Materials and Essential Rigger Gear 

BDSM play is all about safety, trust, and communication. And, while we’ll talk about the latter below, safety is of the highest priority. While spanking and beginner bondage scenes are generally safe, Rigger ones can go south fast. 

For starters, you’ll need to have a set of shears close by to cut the ropes in case the person getting tied up experiences significant discomfort. Also, just like in any BDSM scene, a first aid kit and some aftercare items are essential.

As for the rope materials, we suggest you start with cotton ones. It’s affordable, and you can basically find it everywhere. Once you get into more exotic scenes, go for nylon rope, as it is the best one for any kind of Rigger BDSM play.

That being said, you must know how to correctly tie the rope around your sub (or yourself) and the areas you must avoid. Generally, go for the fleshier parts of the body, and experiment with the tightness on yourself, to gauge what’s just right and what’s going to be a hazard.

Indulge in the Ancient Rigger Techniques

Rigger basics? Check! Safety gear? Check! Well, let’s get straight into the scene.

Shibari

We’ll immediately go to the Far East for the best Rigger plays. Western-style rope bondage is primarily just that; bondage that uses rope instead of cuffs or restraints. Shibari, on the other hand, is just pure art!

Shibari isn’t all about sexual pleasure. A Rigger will tie up the rope bunny in such a way that it becomes a work of art, which is more than enough to give a feeling of ecstasy to both parties. The sub will feel a satisfying freedom in being constrained, while the Dom will flaunt their work of art.

Suspension

Rope suspension is quite extreme, so you’ll need much experience to command such a scene. As the name suggests, the Rigger suspends the rope bunny. Having a pair of scissors is a must during this, and you’ll need to constantly communicate with each other to ensure that everything’s going smoothly.

Solo Dolo

The Rigger kink is an art form. That’s why many Riggers will perform the act on themselves. After all, our bodies are the best blank canvas we need to express ourselves. And BDSM is all about that.

One thing every self-Rigger must know, though, is to be cautious with the knots and their placement. Always have your hands free to be able to untie yourself or have someone nearby to help you out.

Keep Your Knots Tight and Communication and Trust Tighter

Rigger BDSM is undoubtedly one of the beginner exotic kinks, but it can get extreme on a whim. That’s why there must be mutual trust between the participants. 

Plus, communication is vital. Use safe words throughout the scene, and discuss what you’re comfortable with and what you are totally against doing before the play. And don’t forget about the aftercare process (and the cuddles!).

At Oddo Leather, we believe that BDSM is the best way for someone to sexually express themselves fully. Everything is accepted as long as there’s mutual consent. And, if you want to take your scene to the next level, consider checking out some of our premium leather bondage collections.